Are You Keeping Yourself Away?

The shaver and his on the two continuums from the social science research and attachment, this tracks that certainly well, too. If you roughly had to keep people out and that you don't trust people, and you've learned they're not going to be there for you, zip up, take care of yourself, be independent, that the cluster of defenses that kind of rotates around that, all the avoidance stuff. Keeping yourself distracted is one way of avoiding and keeping yourself by keeping other things out.