Ep. 273 - The Doctor Is In Series - Secure or Insecure - What Is Your Attachment Style?
The Social-Engineer Podcast
Navigating Modern Relationships and Attachment Styles
This chapter delves into the challenges of contemporary dating influenced by social media and apps, revealing a sense of disposability in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of commitment, patience, and recognizing imperfections in partners, especially for those with an insecure attachment style.
Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.
In today’s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Attachment Styles. They will talk about the 4 different types, how they are caused and how to grow from an insecure to a secure style. [Sept 2, 2024]
00:00 - Intro
00:16 - Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro
00:49 - Intro Links
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03:49 - The Topic of the Day: Attachment Styles
05:01 - The Types
05:44 - Secure Attachment
07:32 - Anxious Preoccupied Attachment
09:27 - Primary and Secondary Influences
14:40 - Dismissive Avoidant Attachment
17:42 - Fearful Avoidant Attachment
20:01 - One at a Time
21:09 - Oxytocin Influence
26:30 - The Path Forward
29:51 - See It to Believe It
34:21 - Emotional Well-Being
- Work in Progress - Dr. Abbie Maroño
36:47 - Second Date Sharing
39:19 - Swipe Right
41:15 - Next Month: Judd Shaw
42:12 - Wrap Up & Outro
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