How to Lean Into the Suck

Before Dave died if someone was having a hard time I would say is there anything I can do. When he was traveling and not with me he would write me one line emails you were not alone. A childhood friend sent me a card that still hangs above my desk that said one day she woke up and realized we were all in this togetherMy friend Elise. This is the acknowledgement rather than not saying anything could you remind them. Yeah. Say something and say we we will get through this. But we don't know what's going to happen acknowledge. Mmm.