No matter how hard you've worked on yourself, a guy's intentions are to get supply from you. For me, I find that triggering because it reminds me of again being in that dynamic with my primary caregiver and just being dismissed or being told that I'm making a big deal. And when men make me feel dismissed, that's an instant disqualification. Like I don't even bother with trying to salvage that because it's not salvageable. Yeah, no second chances.
This week I am joined by Chidera Eggerue, otherwise known as the Slumflower, host of the Slumflower Hour and author of the Number 1 Sunday Times Bestsellers What a Time to be Alone (2018) and How to Get Over a Boy (2020) to discuss attachment styles, how to set boundaries and non-negotiables when dating men. We discuss the own hard lessons we’ve learnt through our intimate relationships, how to reclaim your power, the psychology behind why we accept the bare minimum and so much more. Listen now!
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