We have to overcome these irrational things that stand in our way. What i do with you is guided mastery. The important part about guide and mastery is that you have a roll model who actually scaffolds you. They give you the support, and also they show you what you can do, but you can't yet do it yourself. And then with the roll model, whose capable and skilled, you travel along this journey of mastery. That is how albender would say, you start the cycle of confidence and success.