How to Find the Right Person to Marry

Being a cop is what you do, it's not who you are. The more that your identity is tied to that badge on your chest, in my opinion, at least, the more trouble you are gonna have when it is time for you to move on. I don't know your girlfriend, and I don't wanna influence your decision at all. You could proactively do couple therapy. It will give you an opportunity in a neutral environment to deal with any issues they actually fester.