What Women Can Do to Arouse Men

I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols to dismantle the biggest myths men believe about sex, attraction, and confidence. We talk about why performance anxiety kills connection, how curiosity builds real sexual confidence, and what actually drives desire in long-term relationships. This conversation goes deep into emotional attunement, power dynamics, attachment styles, and why better sex starts long before the bedroom.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - What Men Misunderstand About Attraction

01:07 - The Real Role of Confidence

01:25 - Porn, Netflix, and Sexual Myths

03:46 - The Reality of Sex Statistics

06:12 - Performance Anxiety and Spectatoring

07:31 - Sexual Curiosity Explained

08:02 - How to Improve Your Sex Life Tonight

10:18 - Talking During Sex Without Killing Desire

11:27 - Why Uncertainty Is a Myth

13:52 - Self-Growth vs Distance in Desire

16:09 - Planned Sex vs Spontaneity

17:49 - How Confidence Is Built Sexually

19:32 - The Sexual Unicorn Myth

22:50 - Getting Out of Your Head in Bed

24:32 - When Your Partner Says “I Don’t Know”

26:44 - Desire vs Arousal

29:27 - Why Bodies Don’t Always Match Desire

31:54 - Power Dynamics and Erotic Differences

35:57 - Madonna-Whore Complex Explained

42:47 - The Hierarchy of Sexual Needs

44:36 - Attachment Styles and Sex

48:33 - Emotional Attunement and Female Desire

52:42 - Dominance, Safety, and Masculinity

59:36 - When Men’s Needs Get Deprioritized

01:04:35 - What Women Can Do Better Sexually

01:07:44 - The Lost Art of Seduction

01:10:06 - Final Takeaways and Where to Find Nicole

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