Karen: My favorite thing is when people come and ask for advice for me. When they have no pre-scribed, like, here's what I think I want. They're like, Hey, you're like one, your enablement kicks in. And two, your discernment kicks in to say, Oh, I can help you figure it out. So not only do I want to help you, I can do it in the right way. She says she will apply some discernment and maybe suggest some other ways of doing it. "It's both my geniuses all wrapped up in one"