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How to Navigate Common Arguments

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

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What's the Payoff?

The seeking of soothing can be associated with that where you want the person to come to you as a soother. It's a bid for connection and that kind of way, which is sort of funny to think about an argument as a bid for connected. But I think that can definitely show a lot for people. And all this is often quite centered in attachment styles in early childhood.

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