Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Uncomfortable Situations in the Heat of August

I broke one of my own big rules this summer. For the last few weeks, I've been kicking myself, saying, how could I do this? I know better. I wrote a book called Free Time, after all!

Well, as I say in the introduction, business stress is a systems problem. Listen in for more on the mistake I made, and the systems and reminders I set up to ensure I have ample free time next summer.

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🌟 3 Key Takeaways

• Europeans have been taking a full month off (typically in July or August) since the 1920s; this is common practice for them.
• Your clients will be enjoying their summer too, wishing they were away from their computers splashing in pools or ocean waves.
• New business will likely be in a lull while others are on vacation. You’ll want to enter the fourth quarter of the year with enthusiasm.

📝 Permission: Claim your big free time blocks for next summer now. Take notice, future self!

✅ Do (or Delegate) This Next: Set a daily recurring Do Not Schedule (DNS) block now for next August. Do not let yourself schedule any work commitments over it! Bonus: Take this time to also block off mid-December through mid-January if you haven’t already.

🔗 Resources Mentioned

• Articles: JSTOR Daily—Why Europeans Have Such Long Summer Vacations, NYT—[Heat Singes the Mind, Not Just the Body](https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/10/health/heat-mental-health.html#:~:text=“Extreme heat is an external,are experiencing homelessness%2C she added.)
• Apps: TripIt Pro, HotelTonight (use promo code JBLAKE9)

📚 Books Mentioned

• Free Time: Lose the Busywork, Love Your Business
• Pivot: The Only Move That Matters Is Your Next One
• Life After College

🎧 Related Episodes

• Free Time: 166: Crashing into Quiet Time 🏝️, 126: Creating Time Buffer—7 Strategies for Spacious Scheduling
• Pivot: 250: Staycation in the City, 77: 21+ Travel Tips, Tools and Apps

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