"I don't need men, but I want them," she says. "Cynicism is a much better place to land than vengeful women being all vengeful against each other." She believes that if you are empathetic and absorb absorbing of others' pain or wounds, you do need some cynicism. But it doesn't mean your life will never be filled with love in this world. 'It's like an invisible sheet of film that you can just put on temporarily, but remember to take it off.'
This week I am joined by Chidera Eggerue, otherwise known as the Slumflower, host of the Slumflower Hour and author of the Number 1 Sunday Times Bestsellers What a Time to be Alone (2018) and How to Get Over a Boy (2020) to discuss attachment styles, how to set boundaries and non-negotiables when dating men. We discuss the own hard lessons we’ve learnt through our intimate relationships, how to reclaim your power, the psychology behind why we accept the bare minimum and so much more. Listen now!
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