Do You Really Need a Good Marriage Counselor?

Jane: empathy is the first step in healing but again this is another moment that can be hard to do because people who have done the hurting often want to rush back into defensiveness or blaming the well i wouldn't have done it if you hadn't. This is another time when you really need a good marriage counselor, she says. Jane: The person who has been cheated on obviously needs to understand their partner really gets how painful that was and how awful it was  and they might also need to understand what was going on for their partner emotionally in the months and years leading up to those events. To get to that emotionally connected and pathic and validating conversation is the next step