Coming into presence with someone like you and I are right now has an effect on both of our physiologies as we do it yep. In that relationship that we're you know that we have right now and therefore that we are developing ends up on both ofour shoulders later when we think about whatever it was that we talked about or committed to with each other. The first five minutes of the therapy session is always no matter what the issue the person was bringing in or what the treatment plan was, it was five minutes of connecting in this space getting into a emotional state so that we could do good work for the rest of the hourright? So that five minutes and it always happens I've