The Importance of Impetus Control in Dating

I often think impulsive is like kind of a nice window dressing of selfishness. You know, if you're sort of impulsive and spontaneous, it's also a way of saying, I don't really think about how this is going to affect you. And in the movies, it always works out. Like when someone takes you to a wedding, even though they were just trying to make someone else jealous, but somehow, you know, you found romance. So that's the other issue. There's so many, yeah, there's so much manipulative and nice stuff. It comes in the kind of impulse control thing because there's a selfishness that goes hand in hand with that.