How Do You Feel About Your Relationships With Women?

i was also curious with the romance rotest, and how you've been able to have conversations about it. Because i do often feel like, when i talk to my girl friends, i always feel like they are doing a lot more of the work in, like, making the relationship better. And similarly with, like, all the self help books, feeling like, ah, you know, women tend to be more interested in the books or and bettering themselves. I mean, my gay friends, it's been really interesting i'm talking with them about this, because, a, they are not dealing with those same sort of socially assigned norms of like, women do this, or men