Is Obliger Rebellion a Real Thing?

"If Becky asked me for something, I will go to the moon to make it happen," she says. "The moment people start asking repeatedly and I get the feeling that they're doing it just because they think I'll follow through on it, like then I snap." There's an emotional intelligence scale for this too: Aggression versus deference. The one you can move towards is assertion, learning to balance what other people want from you and stand up for what you want.