The Early Adulthood Is Like a Waiting Room

You talk about a the early adulthood being like the image of a waiting room. Can you expand on that and talk about how you think we're much more in control than we think we are? The metaphor that i give to cliett and that i talk about in the books is imagine you're in a waiting room, and it's got all these doors around ithese offices or what have you. Thit's actually a thousand doors, and they're all closed, and they all look pretty firmly locked and so on. But there are many more doors open than we the that is obvious to us when we're in early adult hood. And we will discover that later on.