
Ep 273 In Each Other's Care with Stan Tatkin
Marriage Therapy Radio
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The Power of Thinking Critically
If we were to take a look at secure functioning and boil it down to a formula, the formula would be, I have to consider you at the same time of considering myself. In other words, if I only talk about in a manner that suggests, I only care about my fears, my concerns, my interests, whether I'm right, it forces you, compels you to do the same. And this is part of the human condition. It's part of what gets us into wars and lawsuits and people breaking up in families, you know, cutting off. Is this this tendency for us to pick up threat and react to it very, very quickly in a way that looks threatening to
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