Are You a Blank Person?

i think of myself as a good parent who listens to and is there for their kids. So now i've got two parts of myself, or two stories thenwo i am, that are in conflict while i'm standing there on the lawn with the phone in my hand. Like, can't i play at this level if i can't be on and give them the help they need when they need it? It's too black and white. And how do i be honest with myself that i can'tBe a hundred % that all the time, and that's ok,. That's actually human. We sometimes do an exercise where we ask people, just finish the following sentence, if i know