"I'd encourage this person to think a little bit about, you know, really into someone and you guys can be like in a good, healthy relationship," he says. "If she's not feeling the same way you do, then then I think it's actually really healthy for her to let you know that so that you don't get hurt more down the road." 'It is the responsibility of each person in the relationship to communicate what their needs are to the other person,' another commenter adds. "'You all need to really stop donating because it's distracting' - an anonymous donor.'"