The Importance of Taking Advantage of the System

In a healthy relationship, you're probably being taken care of. All we need to do is find someone that takes care of us in that way. It's like being a child. You don't have too many responsibilities as a child. So your parents or your caretakers take care of you in that way - not all of them did a good job. But that's what it feels like. And there needs to be some sort of nudge in us to motivate us to not fall into that trap. Some people go for years on unemployment. I didn't want to be one of those people. What works for the freeloader to get the freeloading off your resource system