Relationships - Listening to People

One of the things i try to do in my therapeutic sessions is, first of all, to listen, to really listen. And while i'm listening, things will happen in my head. Maybe i'll get a little image of something, or i'll get a thought, or a question will emerge. And then i'll just tell the person what that is. But it's not like i have a goal, except that we're trying to make things better. You have to be integrated. For that to happen, you do that, at least in part by wanting to tell the truth. The more the ensuing relationship will involve a tendency towards reciprocal communication with the same qualities.