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A new philosophy of love

The Gray Area with Sean Illing

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Love Is Not Something You Have, It's Something You Do

Love is not something you have. It's something you do, or it's not something that happens to you. You don't just accidentally find yourself in a loving relationship one day. So much of the romantic myths about love are very self indulgent. After hundreds of years capitalist influence, we've come to understand what a good life is as being about how good we are as consumers. And so good partnership means consuming together. What are you buying together? Buy ing a house, buying some ino groceries every week. And, as you say, ultimately, even consuming one another,. which is sort of the worst and most depressing downside of it.

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