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The Surprising Science About Relationships & Happiness | Robert Waldinger

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Complieration and Compassion

When we think about emotions or experiences that connect us deeply with other people, often we talk about compassion as sort of like the linchpin. Well commiseration is part of that whole realm of whether someone else gets me. So if I've lost a loved one to cancer and I go to a bereavement group where other people can talk about, yeah, this is what it's like when I feel like a lot of people are just saying nice things but they don't really get what it feels like. That commiseration can be so bonding and can make me feel seen. And so in that sense, it can be really good. There are also people who can exploit this in

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