You Don't Need Praise and You Dont Need Approval

You don't need to be upholding this, thisa self image up there. Who cares if it gets a little bit of smudges on it once in a while? You need to accept that, accept your self image will get tarnished and that people out there don’t need to be constantly validating it. When you're authentic, anhoug ther person is authentic, there can be tension, and that tension is also authentic tension. It's hard to be attractive, because you make yourself so bland, right? It's like you take out everything that's unique and special about you. And now, setially, that's ok. That other person doesn't mind