The Performance of Parenting Easy Kids

I wonder if it makes me think of being at the grocery store sometimes and seeing, there could be kind of a performative aspect. We all do a little bit of this performance, right? And I don't think it's a hundred percent a bad thing, right? Because on the one hand, yes, we want other people to think we're functional human beings,. But I also want to like present myself as a functional human being.