221. The Five Reasons People Pick Fights and Three Things to Do About It
Relationships Made Easy
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The Self-Sabotage Prophecy
The third reason I see a lot is that it's this self-fulfilling prophecy. This is really related to the self-sabotage piece. They really don't feel worthy of love or things going well, right? They pick a fight. The other person rejects them in some way, right? Gets angry at them, doesn't want to talk to them,. If they're always picking fights, you can't trust me to hold that vulnerability and to hold the safe space for you. It pushes you away very assuredly.
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