i like to think that you don't ow who you were yesterday, or last week, or last month, or last year. You are free to be somebody completely new to day to morrow. But intandim with that, you don't owe the perception that your friends have of you anything either. It's just that sometimes your friends want you to be a certain way. Maybe they've chosen you as a friend for, you know, self serving purposes,. Andd you show up a certain way their lives and they refuse to think of you any differently.