How Do You Feel When You're With Person?

So many of us focus on where we feel broken. And for a lot of us, we have a lot of areas of strength and safety and connection that are deeply erotic. For some of us, this is like singing in choir at church - when you feel most able to be fully me. We can start tracking and noticing the qualities of these spaces and experiences and mapping them forward into desires, requests. But i really the idea that it's a practice. Not every time you ask for the thing, are you going to get it? Sometimes the people in your life are going to trip up. This is just about miss attonement. How do you come back and try again? That's