The Importance of Using Your Strength in Relationships

The idea is to take his 10 and use almost like using part of his 10 for on top of your seven because you're going the same way. It's one of those things that I subconsciously learned from jujitsu and I applied it all the time especially in dealing with relationships. If you attack the defense heavily defended position you're not gonna win if you go against a power attendant, he says. "Even if you use full power even if that's full power in fact it's gonna be worse for you"