Do You Have Empathy for Your Kids?

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Our job is to hold the boundary, but we also get to allow our children to have feelings about that boundary. Honoring their feelings doesn't mean i become this permissive, anything goes parent. There's a difference between feelings and behaviours,. But embodying our authority isn't enough in any parenting approach. We're also validating feelings by letting one kid let me know they are mad at us. That's really terrifying for a kid who feels not real and not feeling like their feelings arrere being noticed. And you caun understand, because that's literally why i lie, exactly. I lie to preserve attachment, isay, people to think different of me.

1. The 3 most important things to say to your kids and partners every day.

2. Why our kids trigger us – and a fail-proof strategy to use when you’re triggered.

3. Why “poorly-behaved kids” can be a sign of good parenting.

4. How to break family cycles by rewiring the way we were raised.

5. How to use Internal Family Systems to heal ourselves.

About Dr. Becky:

Dr. Becky Kennedy is a clinical psychologist and mom of three, named “The Millennial Parenting Whisperer” by TIME Magazine. She’s rethinking the way we raise our children – empowering parents to feel sturdier and more equipped to manage the challenges of parenting. Dr. Becky is founder of the Good Inside Membership platform, a hub with Dr. Becky’s complete parenting content collection all in one place; author of Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, which is out this month. And her podcast “Good Inside with Dr. Becky” – was one of Apple Podcasts “Best Shows of 2021.”

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