Is There an Alternative to Negativity?

If i think negative thoughts about a negative situation, if i interpret it in a negative way, to concrete negative emotions, negative actions, negative results. To hell with natural. I want an amazing life. If something bad happens to me, i'll take it and i'll still see the good in it. And that means that i win no matter what. That's an option. What's an alternative option? Alternate of option is that you have something bad happened to you, but you recognize and you see,. wait a minute, wait a minute. "I don't like to gamble with my life"