"There's a very simple way to do this and it works every time walk directly up to the person stick your fucking hand out and say hey I know who you are," he says. "Most 17 year old kids get lost in the churn and most 27 year old children get lost because they don't have confidence." He advises young men not to be so eager for the next step or progression of relationship, as people will smell some inauthenticity from their first impression.