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How to Improve Any Relationship: The 4 Attachment Styles You Need to Know & Tools to Become More Secure

The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Are You Feeling High Arousal When You're Anxiously Attached?

If you're triggered, someone's triggering your wounds of abandonment. You're feeling like a high arousal the most. And so it can be easy to feel like I like this person because they're making me feel high arousal. But in finding more security, it's more like I don't like feeling triggered. It's not sexy or enthralling now that I have a more positive sense of myself.

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