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#271: Intimacy, Emotional Baggage, Relationship Longevity, and More - Esther Perel

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When Do You Know That the Relationship Is Done?

i hope that i've given you some a ideas, inspirations, food for thought in the pursuit of your own loving and triving relationships. I want to add a piece to cavilina's question, when do you know that the relationship is done? Cavilina was talking about the four horsemen of apocalypse that a famous researcher on the relationships, john gotman, talks about. You can't bring anything up without the other son instantlyrejecting, defensive, going neajerk instead of just saying, yes, thank you for telling me. Stone walling is silent treatment. It's withdrawing a removing oneself and letting the other persons stand out there and talk to the walls

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