I've had relationships that have lasted a couple of months, and they're great. We have am intimacy, ah, but at the end of the day, like, i just don't um, attach. I think my issue is, i just have a very specific physical archetype,. Yes, and a what? But it also, it goes back to, it's not for me. Ah, well, i would say i haven't. It wasn't just an excuset as it was truth. Am puye ive.