Each triad is looking for certain things from their relationship. For the eight nine in one, they're looking for respect. Two for a, want to be seen, known and validated. The two and three are more cage. But if i perceive that you do see me and get me and see that i am struggling, and you're making that o k, i'm relieved,. And i'll come forward and i'll, i will meet you more. That's what they want. They don't expect it. Of course, everybody's like that to some degree, but twos, three and fours, that's the main thing. All five, six and seven has that conviction...