ADHD Symptoms - What Makes Your Partner Feel Unloved?

In Melissa's book, she says that the top marital issues that both partners agree lead to feeling unloved are as follows. Failing to remember what the other has said, talking without thinking, zoning out of conversations, having trouble dealing with frustration,. underestimating the time needed to complete a task and blowing up inconsistently. Now doesn't this just sound like a symptom list for ADHD? Do you see now why it's so, so, so important that we educate ourselves and our partners and friends on ADHD?"