I feel that we are uniquely human these ways, because each one of these is a portal into a vast literature of poetry devoted to unwinding and trying to stand and deconstruct. It changed me, because i'm someone who was not particularly good at reaching out. And i had a little bit of the pluralistic ignorance thing where i thout, o theyr gong tothink it's weird,. Even though i never asked myself, well, if they reach out to you, would you think it was weird? I won't think its weird at all. They want to do it too. Somebody has to be the first doit.