How can you build rapport without coming across as wanting something in return? Prospects can easily sense if you’re not genuinely trying to connect with them and are only interested in their money. If you’re struggling with this sales method, listen to my guest, Ante Mihaljević, a sales and communication expert, share his refreshing take on building rapport with prospects.

The Importance of Genuine Rapport

Stop making rapport feel gimmicky or disingenuous by showing genuine interest in understanding and helping a prospect. This approach makes them feel heard and valued, fostering openness and a positive relationship.

Techniques for Building Rapport

Ante shares valuable insights on building rapport effectively:

Stay Focused and Curious: Be genuinely interested in your prospect’s needs and listen actively to their concerns.
Mirror and Match: Observe and subtly mimic your prospect’s language and behavior to create a sense of familiarity and trust.
Avoid Focusing on the Outcome: Concentrate on the interaction and the process of connecting with your prospect rather than the end goal of making a sale.

Recognizing Genuine Connection

How do you know when it’s time to transition from building rapport to having a sales conversation?
It’s all about intuition! Ante explains that you’ll intuitively know when you and your prospect are in sync and ready to discuss sales.

Practical Exercises for Sales Teams

For sales managers looking to train their teams in rapport building, Ante suggests exercises such as:

Observational Practice: Encourage your team to observe and analyze prospects’ breathing rates and language patterns.
Mirroring Exercises: Help your team get comfortable with mirroring by practicing with each other before trying it with actual prospects.

“They will start finishing your sentences. They will start breathing at the same rate you’re breathing. So, a lot of these non-verbals will happen. When you know that has happened, you’re ready to move on.” — Ante Mihaljević.

Resources

Ante Mihaljević on LinkedIn

Ante Mihaljević website

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