You have every right to set your boundaries and do what's best for yourself. I think a person who is gaslighting will blatantly lie. They will minimize how you feel. You're not there to argue or convince them that your feelings matter. And if they begin to deny or minimize, you have everyright to leave that conversation. Professional help is so, so important here.
The term 'gaslighting' has grown in popularity in recent years and become part of our shared psychobabble, giving our generation the language to describe a pattern of behaviour that has existed for centuries. This week on the podcast, we explore a recent story in the media on gaslighting and dive into what gaslighting actually means from a psychological perspective. We explore the origins of the term, how it references pop culture, the six behavioural patterns adopted by gaslighters and the links to narcissism and pathological lying. We also discuss how to identify this behaviour, detach from these individuals and move forward from the emotional hangover created by gaslighting. All that and more, listen now!
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