The best way to win a competition is for the opponent to not know that there is a competition. There's multiple games going on and they're in them. If you don't realize that you're in a game, you're not going to win. You have to recognize thatYou're in multiple games. To say that something isn't a game? Because what else is a game? Tick-tock - toe to toe is a game right? Right Shoots?! So life is viewed as a game, which is sort of a diminishing tone, right?