A chapter discussing how a book about dating with disabilities unexpectedly emerged during the creation of children's books, leading the authors to interview individuals about their romantic relationships as disabled individuals. The conversation delves into confronting ableism, the impact of internalized ableism on dating, and the need to challenge societal norms. It also emphasizes normalizing conversations about sex and disabilities, showcasing unique experiences and the importance of seeing beyond disabilities in relationships.
Todd is looking for love, but he’s unsure about disclosing something in dating profiles: his multiple sclerosis. With symptoms that are increasingly visible, Todd feels compelled to be upfront about his disability with potential dates—but he doesn’t know when or how to discuss it. On this episode of How To!, Carvell Wallace brings on Jessica Slice and Caroline Cupp, authors of Dateable: Swiping Right, Hooking Up, and Settling Down While Chronically Ill and Disabled. They give Todd guidance on having that talk, navigating ableism, and managing his own internal expectations.
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