All Selfishness Leads to a More Refined Understanding of What Makes Us Happy

All self interest, it seems, leads to a more refined understanding of what makes us happy. I think that's really what selfishness is. Every time I've watched a parent call somebody selfish and then they become adults and then they think they're selfish, it's always because the parent wants them to do something else. So it's almost a projection of selfishness from the parent to even call. If you're listening to this and this has given you like a holy fuck moment, let me know in the comments if this kind of triggered something for you or not.