338 - The Science of Relationship Maintenance
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is Your Partner Coming to You With Love?
Lan son: There needs to be a middle ground between what i'm predisposed to do and what you're predispose to do. When you have too much or too little, it just creates negative effects all around. I the gotmans call this positive sentiment override. It's basely this idea that my positive sentiments about my partner are more likely to override my negative sentiments. And again, that ooesn't mean they could commit murder and i don't care,. Or they could just wholly abuse me and i don’t care.
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