We all have these lenses on, these beliefs that create our perception of life. So some of us have this lens on that people are evil and the world is a really wicked, scary place. You'll find evidence for it everywhere when you watch the news or look at social media. It doesn't matter what is going on in your life; it just depends on what you are looking through. I had a client who said, i'm a failure. We were coaching, because his main belief about himself was, i're a failure. He gave me all these reasons he's a failure: porn, wife won't connect with him, hating job. And then we asked if there were