Being a Parent Is Really, Really Hard

i'm 31 weeks pregnant, so like we are happy. We're excited this baby's going to come into this world and share so much joy and love and laughter with us. But it was like, i can't believe we're going to have another one. Like this is so hard. And mat was like, you know, like life, we can't just, we can't ruin our life any more than it's already ruined. So why? Why not just add another kid to the makes?"