Needs of the Domination System

Our needs can be satisfied in many different ways and whenever we trick ourselves into thinking they can only be met by a specific person we almost guarantee we won't get the need met. That takes a world which is so abundant and beautiful and shrinks it immediately into a dependence on a specific person taking a specific action. So this is just what I meant to say that the education from the domination structure plays heavily on needs and distorts them through the education into what Michael Lerner calls misrecognition. When we are fully in touch with our needs nature puts into our head images of how to meet the needs but education in domination cultures blocks this natural process and turns our consciousness of the need into a mis