
Ep. 259: The Trouble With Overgiving and Overcompensating
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
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Buffers Are People Who Act Like an Emotional Air Bag in a Relationship
Buffers are people who act like an emotional air bag in the relationship. And so they buffer the person against everything that is going on in their lives. They might for all the giving that they can into the relationship to shelter this person from, for instance, their recent break up or whatever problems are going on. So because i'm bin your emotional air bag and doing all thes stuff for you, u should give me a relationship. If you watch the first episode of net flixs new reality showd the ultimatum, it's excruciating to hear people say that they're issuing an ultimatum as they effectively believe that they're owed a marriage because of everything they give.
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