My Feelings Don't Matter

When you give or tell someone what your boundaries are, you're telling them how to treat you. The people who care about you will treat you the way you want to be treated. If your feelings don't matter to someone else then there's nothing there. Maybe their feelings matter to you because you're compassionate, you're kind, you're caring, you're generous, supportive but if your feelings don’t matter to them you have no forward momentum. There's no extra step to take. There's nothing left that may sound cold when I say it that way but this is the hard truth. Basically when someone says yourfeelings don't matter there's nowhere else to go.